Dont
take RAs for granted
By Gabe Wicklund
Over the summer, I received a call from the Colby Hall
director, who asked me if I was interested in coming
back to school early to train to be a resident assistant.
I was ecstatic.
I was honored to be picked for a position in which many
people apply but only a few are awarded. Little did
I know how much work it really is and how stressful
it actually can be.
More goes on behind the scenes of an RAs life
than meets the eye. Not only do they have to take care
of themselves, but they are also responsible for 30
or more residents of their own, as well as the other
320 residents within a hall. They come to school two
weeks early for training, lose a week of winter break
and leave after everyone else at the end of the year.
They take a full class load and some of them even have
a side job in addition to being an RA. They participate
in many on-campus organizations, and despite their busy
schedules, they somehow find time to spend with their
residents. They spend hours planning their wing socials
and all-halls. Not only are the socials useful, but
if you attend heaven forbid you may actually
enjoy yourself.
Many of the RAs ask their residents what times are convenient
to host wing socials, so they can work around all of
your busy schedules and have as much participation as
possible. They even take suggestions of what you want
to do for wing socials. If you dont like what
socials have been planned, maybe you should tell your
RA what you would enjoy, so he or she can work that
in. In essence, we want to build a community within
our halls, but we cannot do that alone. Everyone needs
to make an effort.
Also, whether you know it or not, RAs do get to know
their residents by more than just a name. Living in
close confines with you allows RAs to sometimes know
you better than they know themselves. They love to spend
as much time with their residents as they can.
This job has been a blessing in my life. It is extremely
rewarding and also very challenging at times. I wouldnt
give it back for anything. Those who think the RA position
is as simple as getting a free room and sitting on a
futon all day long, think again. Ive noticed that
people like to blame others for their laziness and boredom.
Take a look at your own attitude before you judge someone
else for doing his or her job.
I encourage residents to get to know their RAs. Were
not here just to be here. Were here for your needs.
Take a closer look at how much your RA does for you;
you may be surprised. I didnt know how much went
into the position until I became an RA this semester.
Thank you fellow RAs for all the hard work you do and
all the encouragement and creativity you bring to the
table.
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