More
than just a vacation
Students
spend spring break serving in New York
By
Anthony Kirchner
Staff Reporter
Doing
things like laying out at the beaches of South Padre and skiing
on the slopes in Colorado sound like an average Spring Break for
a college student, right?
But
many TCU students did something different with their Spring Break
by serving on mission trips in places all across America.
A
group of 10 students from the college ministry at Travis Avenue
Baptist Church spent their Spring Break serving in New York City.
Many of them had never been to New York, most of them were challenged
in ways like never before and all of them say their lives have been
changed because of the trip.
Here
are some of their thoughts about what they experienced.
Serving at The Covenant
House
The group from Travis Avenue Baptist Church spent four days serving
at the Covenant House, a shelter for teen-agers. The Covenant House,
or the Cov as it is called by its residents and employees,
is the largest privately-funded childcare agency in the United States
providing shelter and service to homeless and runaway youths.
In addition
to food, shelter, clothing and crisis care, the Covenant House provides
a variety of services to homeless youth including health care, education,
vocational preparation, drug abuse treatment and prevention programs,
legal services, recreation, mother/child programs, transitional
living programs, street outreach and aftercare.
The group spent
most of their time helping in the clothing and filing rooms at the
Covenant House.
I enjoyed
serving with people that work at the Covenant House. It was a joy
to know that their work load would be lessened that week because
we were there, said Erin Fitzgerald, a junior education major.
I didn't
expect to have so much fun working in the clothing room, said
Brandi Giles a freshman deaf education major. I felt like
I really accomplished something when I left on Thursday. The thing
that made me feel great was when Joyce, a worker at the Covenant
House, told us that we were a breath of fresh air.
Annie Fairleigh,
a junior education major said, My favorite part of the trip
was getting to see a glimpse of what other people go through, mainly
the runaways at the Covenant House, and realizing how thankful I
am for the family and parents God has blessed me with.
Expect
the unexpected
Unexpected things are bound to happen anytime a group of people
go on a trip. This trip was no exception.
My best
friend Maria and I got sick at the same time while we were there.
It made the first few days at the Covenant House a challenge, but
God helped us to persevere and serve with joy, Fitzgerald
said.
I didn't
expect for half of our team to come down with a cold one after another,
but the ones that got sick continued to serve joyfully which I think
was even more unexpected to me. It's so easy to get whiny and want
to quit when you're not feeling well, but our team just kept praying
for health so that they could continue to serve and for a positive
attitude in the mean time, said Yvette Nevarez, a freshman
English major.
The black
men on the corner throwing racial slurs at the black girl in our
group was unbelievable to me. I was shocked at their prejudice towards
a black girl hanging out with a mostly white group. I was also shocked
by how angry it made me, but I was helpless. The girl that they
were antagonizing was a model of turning the other cheek. She just
ignored them and never responded to their harassment, Fairleigh
said.
Lessons
Learned
Everyone who went on this mission trip to New York said their lives
have been changed in some way or another.
I learned
that people's lives can be impacted, even if you do the most minor
things, Fitzgerald said. We were there to share the
love of God, in a practical way, by sorting clothes, filing, etc.
I didn't think that I could make someone else happy by doing that,
but people were grateful. Even the small things can help people
in so many ways.
Everybody
has a story, said Maria Adamczyk, a junior speech education
major. If you are willing to listen you get to see a glimpse
into their life and understand a little bit about what they go through
and who they are. I learned to listen, and ask questions that start
a conversation,
I learned
that if you're doing something, you should do it joyfully and with
all you have, Nevarez said.. The people of the Covenant House
do the same monotonous things day after day yet it brings them joy
even during the slow and boring periods because they know they are
making a difference in peoples lives.
Remembering
9/11... Six Months Later
This trip to New York was planned months before Sept. 11, but the
tragedy did have an impact on the planning and preparation for the
trip.
After
Sept. 11th, I really felt the Lord laying it on my heart to go and
share with people who needed comfort and even just a friendly smile
in New York after the tragedy, Nevarez said.
In all
of New York there is noise, said Lisa Jacobs, a senior nutrition
major. Noise from busy people. Noise from anxious taxi drivers.
Noise from cries for charity. There was no noise at Ground Zero.
Visitors barely whispered while viewing the tragic site.
Visiting
Ground Zero was a very somber experience, but I felt removed and
unattached because I was not effected personally, Fairleigh
said. It is heartbreaking to see the list of names of those
who lost their lives and realize all the pain and agony that has
resulted. I only wish those hurting would turn to Jesus during this
time of needOnce passing through the gates to approach the
platform for Ground Zero, you can feel the impact, Giles said.
Walking towards the sight, there are walls full of poems,
scriptures, pictures, names, all sorts of things left by visitors.
It makes you think that there were really people like Matthew Dakne
and Erin Aidnig who lost their lives. It's hard at first but after
a while it sinks in, and then you just want to leave because it
hurts so much.
There
was a stillness and solemnity that can't really be conveyed with
mere words, Nevarez said. As you step out onto the platform
and look down, your eyes fall upon a flat block of dirt. If you
weren't a native New Yorker, you would have no idea of the massive
buildings that once occupied that space; and the reality of what
took place might not immediately strike you. Then, you would turn
and descend from the platform to let the next group of mourners
pay their respects. As you walk down the ramp, a wooden wall on
the left and a wooden railing on the right accompany you. Both are
filled with prayers, letters, and messages written by people who
lost someone or long to comfort those who did. That's when it becomes
real for those of us who weren't personally affected. And that's
when the tears fell from my eyes.
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