Not
traditional but not alone
Whether
seeking a second degree or starting college for the first time,
more and more adults are entering the world of higher-education,
and at TCU its no exception.
By
Jessica Sanders
Skiff Staff
TCU seems to
represent the typical college life: a residential campus with lush
green lawns, classical-looking buildings, fresh-faced students experiencing
typical college life. But in the middle of this idyllic stereotype,
there are some students who dont fit the mold.
The Association
for Nontraditional Students in Higher Education considers all students
over the age of 25 to be nontraditional. In 2001, 7 percent of the
6,069 full time students at TCU were nontraditional students, according
to the Office of Admissions.
Whether they
are seeking a second degree or starting college for the first time,
more and more adults are entering the world of higher-education.
Debra Benditz,
a 44 year-old student, said the worst thing about being a nontraditional
student is being mistaken for an instructor or a parent.Currently
a junior art history major at TCU, Benditz started her college career
at Stephen F. Austin State University but left shortly after getting
married. What appeared to be the end of her college career turned
out to be the beginning of an exciting life.
At the age of
26, Benditz started her own steel supply business and in 1989 became
one of Glamour magazines Top 10 Working Women In America.
She then sold her company to travel for two years.
Then I
decided I wanted a culinary degree, so I went to culinary school
and became a certified chef, Benditz said.
Not content
to stop there, Benditz bought and sold another business and attended
the University of Saint Thomas at the University of Houston.
Starting
businesses is easy, going back to school is a challenge, said
Benditz.
Recently, she
moved from Houston to Fort Worth to attend TCU and study art history.
I love
going to museums and looking at art and architecture. I wanted to
have a greater appreciation and understanding of what I was viewing,
she said.
Benditz also
began working as a substitute teacher and plans to seek certification
to teach junior or senior high school after she graduates.
Benditz is just
one of many adult students from all walks of life who attend TCU.
Some, like Benditz, transfered from other schools. Others are attending
college for the first time.Andie Piehl, assistant to the dean in
the College of Fine Arts, obtained her position after starting to
college when she was in her mid-40s.
When Piehls
youngest son left for college, she decided it was a good opportunity
to embark on a career change. Piehl said she hadnt planned
to work toward her bachelors degree, and lacked the funds
to pay for a a private four-year college. However, the honors program
at Tarrant County College paid for her education there.
My first
college class started in August of 1994, Piehl said. I
was more scared than any young person ever could be.
Once Piehl overcame
her initial fears her college career took off. After two years,
she transferred to TCU on a full academic scholarship and was admitted
into the honors program.
I love
TCU, she said. I had a cousin who graduated from here
in the 60s and it was always a dream of mine to come to TCU.
Even though
her children were grown and moved away, Piehl said her family had
to make quite a few adjustments to her new life.
It was
very stressful on the family because I quit working from a full-time
job to go to college full-time, Piehl said. My husband
had to learn how to cook, he had to learn to do the laundry, learn
how to turn on the vacuum sweeper. They were accustomed to me taking
care of the house and taking care of things, but when I went to
college I had the college experience.
Though Piehl
was older than the average TCU student, she was very active in campus
activities such as the House of Student Representatives.
In 1998 Piehl
graduated with a major in English and a minor in history.
The reason
I chose history and English, Piehl said, is because
I love to read, I love to write and I love history.
While being
a nontraditional student is not always easy, both Piehl and Benditz
agree that the benefits far outweigh the disadvantages.
When youre
an adult student youre more settled, youre not going
out to parties, Benditz said. At this point in life,
you spend time and go to class instead of making excuses. (And)
youre usually the one paying (tuition).
Though many
adults may fear going back to school, Benditz said she believes
people are never too old to learn. She said the older people get,
the more people realize they dont know.
Piehl agreed
and said people are smarter when they are older.
You know
how to apply yourself to a task, you have perspective on how to
organize your time how to prioritize things, Piehl said. As
an adult, you understand more what to expect from professors.
Piehl said being
the same age as many of her professors helped her to better relate
to them.
For all the
nontraditional students who still feel slightly discouraged, there
is a new organization called the Nontraditional Students Organization.
We wanted
the name to be self-explanatory at first, explained Mary Cunningham,
the organizations founder.
Cunningham,
a nontraditional student herself, wanted to form a group that would
provide nontraditional students with mutual support and friendship.
The Nontraditional
Students
Organization will meet mostly online because it is difficult to
find a time that is convenient for all the interested students.
Cunningham said
the organization does plan to meet for some organized family gatherings,
as well as community service projects such as Habitat for Humanity
and community fundraisers.
The Nontraditional
Students Organization stretches the definition of nontraditional
students to include married students and students who have children.
Currently there are about 25 interested students and 15 actively
involved. This includes both graduate and undergraduate students,
TCU employees who attend class part-time, single parents, business
students and Brite Divinity School students.
The first meeting
of the Nontraditional Students Organization will be 12:10
p.m. Jan. 30 in the Student Center Room 222. Students are asked
to bring their own lunch. For more information, contact Mary Cunningham
by e-mail at (tcu_nontrads@yahoo.com).
Jessica Sanders
j.d.sanders@student.tcu.edu
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