Greek
societies misunderstood
COMMENTARY
Tiffany Abbott
For many, fraternity/sorority life conjures up images
depicted in movies such as Animal House.
Regrettably, I feel these movies and MTVs television
shows, Sorority Life and Fraternity
Life, enforce the misperceptions and negative
stereotypes that fraternities and sororities are irresponsible,
abusive, out of control and partying organizations.
In reality, fraternities and sororities are value-based
groups supported by their founding principles and objectives:
development of personal character, friendship, scholarship,
leadership, philanthropy and good citizenship. Moreover,
I do not think that TCU or any other institution would
have the leaders it does if our students didnt
have the fraternal experience.
It is very possible that students may consider fraternities
and sororities exclusive; however, fraternities and
sororities are inclusive and cohesive. The main difference
between fraternal organizations and all other student
organizations is one word ritual. Ritual is the
secrecy behind our fraternities and sororities.
It is what makes our organizations unique. Ritual is
the dedication and commitment to our organization, and
it is one of the main reasons why we have retention.
My sorority experience was a great one. I was very active
on campus. I had numerous leadership positions within
my own organization, which included Panhellenic Council
delegate, parents chair and membership recruitment chair.
I also was involved as a student government representative,
student lobbyist and was a part of the admissions tour
guide staff as well. I was also fortunate to be able
to attend my international organizations convention.
Furthermore, our fraternity/sorority community was cohesive,
and we took advantage of attending the Mid-American
Greek Council Association (MGCA) conference. These leadership
conferences enabled me to be a better leader in our
fraternal community as well as prepare me for my current
profession.
A strong correlation exists between academic success
inside the classroom and outside the classroom. Research
has shown that participation in student organizations
may significantly contribute to students scholastic
achievements, career development, alumni development
and personal enrichment. Furthermore, students who join
a fraternity or sorority also have a higher retention
and graduation rate with their institution.
For students who may be interested in joining a fraternity/sorority,
we suggest that they go through the formal recruitment
process (formerly known as rush). Formal recruitment
takes place at the beginning of the fall semester and
some organizations have events year-round. The events
of formal recruitment provide an opportunity to learn
about the fraternity/sorority system, the chapters locally
and the brothers/sisters currently in the chapter.
I believe that fraternity/sorority life provides each
member in a fraternal organization with a personal and
unique experience. Membership offers students opportunities
to get involved on campus and in their community, to
develop lifelong friendships, leadership development,
academic excellence, philanthropy and a strong network
across the nation.
Tiffany
Abbott is the director of Fraternity and
Sorority Affairs.
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