Twas
the night before finals...
and
all through the dorms, not a student was sleeping not even a one.
Story by Natasha
Terc
Art by Correy Jefferson
Its April
at TCU, and the stress is on full blast. Brains are flying wild
with visions of term papers and finals soon to come, and droopy-eyed
students clad in plaid pajama pants and flip flops seem to be the
trademark for lecture classes.
While hopping
to a local bar may to many seem the natural stress-buster from cramming
and pounding out term papers, for some students, numbing anxiety
with alcohol should not be an alternative to effective time management,
nutrition and exercise, said Monica Kintigh, licensed professional
counselor at TCU.
Kintigh said
April is generally the month for high stress.
Students
are worried about losing financial aid, their living arrangement
or what theyre going to do over the summer, Kintigh
said.
Lack of concentration,
irritability and increased heart rate are all symptoms of being
stressed, Kintigh said.
The more
decisions you have to make in a day and the more things you have
to do, even if you like to do them, can cause stress, Kintigh
said. The Health Center will sometimes see more people (in
April) for headaches and other symptoms of stress. Although the
pain is real, its just from stress.
Linda Moore,
associate professor of social work, said stress usually sneaks up
on people.
All
of a sudden, its hard to get up in the morning and you find
yourself taking longer and longer to get ready and get where youre
going, Moore said.
Moore has experienced
stress not only as a professor, but also as a social worker. Burnout
is a term used especially in helping professions, she said.
Some symptoms
of burnout include fatigue, chronic illness, negativity and anger,
according to the International Journal of Psychiatry.
I think we have to be especially careful of cynicism,
Moore said. You find yourself making comments you thought
were funny, but when you listen to yourself, you realize youre
being cynical.
Rayner Smith,
a senior business management major, said he is generally a relaxed
person.
I drink
a lot, though, Smith said. Its a release for me
to forget all the stuff thats going on.
Smith said
he has been burned out his whole five years in college, and now
he just wants his diploma.
At this
point, I care about school zero, Smith said. Id
take a lower letter grade in any class if I didnt have to
take the final. D stands for diploma.
To celebrate
after graduation, Smith is throwing a crawfish boil.
College
has been a paid vacation, Smith said. Im sure
once I start working, itll be lots more hectic.
Moore said
she can tell when the stress from the end of the semester has caught
up with students.
Its
interesting as a faculty member to watch the students who usually
dress up and wear makeup to class, Moore said. By the
end of the semester, its sweats and T-shirts.
Kintigh said
there are strategies students can follow to balance stress in college.
Planning a to-do list for the week, breaking down tasks into manageable
pieces, eating, sleeping and exercising right are all ways to beat
stress.
Another
important thing is to find ways to laugh at life, Kintigh
said. If you dont have two or three good belly laughs
a day, youre probably holding a lot of stress in. A friend
of mine says, if you can laugh about it a year from now, laugh
about it now.
Sometimes
people turn to alcohol to avoid dealing with stress because they
do not have a clear set of goals to get them through it, Kintigh
said.
We all
have a little addict in us, whether its eating chocolate ice
cream or drinking too much, Kintigh said. Some people
think if they avoid the pain, itll just go away.
Dave Mitchell,
owner of the Pub on University Drive, said he sees a noticeable
drop in business during the week when students are feeling the pressure.
Anytime
there are tests, projects and deadlines, we see a drop-off,
Mitchell said. The kids dont come in. Theyre doing
the right thing.
Mitchell said
last week and the week after Spring Break were slow, but business
has remained strong on the weekends.
More often than not, Thursday through Saturday they blow it
out here, Mitchell said.
Kintigh said
using friends as support systems is an important way to get through
stressful times.
Its
certainly better than going to the bars, Kintigh said.
Stress management
is as necessary for faculty as it is for students.
Its
important for us who are working with students to find ways to refill
our own cups, Kintigh said. We have to appropriately
manage our stress so well be good role models for our students.
Moore said
it helps her to exercise and cut back on tasks when she feels overwhelmed.
Sometimes
you just have to say stop it and do something else,
Moore said. And sometimes you have to lower your expectation
level and accept that youre doing the best you can.
Natascha Terc
n.f.terc@student.tcu.edu
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